Always be sure to click a member's username to see if they've added any of their IM information.
Although, I'm sure its possible, but perhaps they can modify user accounts in a way that they can embed a Digsby Widget in their account info --or-- perhaps implement jabber somehow so you can add each other in digsby using just their forum names. Just my 1 cent (apparent pennies are worth two cents now =P)
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